I'm a slayer, ask me how.

I didn't read the book, I just read about it on the imdb reviews, so that's the only reason I know what the crotch-shot meant. And that's funny that you both thought dad was gay too. In the clip of an interview I saw, the filmmaker said he didn't understand why so many people read that into that scene, and I'm like, well, let's see, the kid and dad are having fun at dad's house, and then suddenly a hunky male friend walks in like he's really familiar with the place and everyone starts acting all uncomfortable and nervous. And the kid's looking back and forth between the two like he sort of understands but not really. Does that cover it?

ps. oh and I'm 1/4 Swedish. We may be pasty, but we brought you ABBA!