tiny friends cut

[orangerful]

FYI I did a little friends cut today. Mostly people who I never felt like I clicked with or we didn't comment on each other's posts etc. No hard feelings! I find myself struggling to keep up with posts some days and I feel bad skimming past posts and when I checked the statistics to confirm we never really talked, I figured it was best to say goodbye.

Comments

[verdande-mi.livejournal.com]

Since you seem to have mastered it, perhaps you can help me...I could never figure out how to see which people I talk with here or not...how do I go about doing that?

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

If you go to the drop down menu where you username is in the upper right, there is a "statistics" section. Go to the "comments" then scroll down and you can see "top commentators" (http://www.livejournal.com/tools/topcommentators.bml) and it lets you set a date range. I did 6 months and then if I saw a username while reading my flist that I didn't connect with, I did a quick search to see if we had even conversed back and forth.

[koyaaniisqatsi.livejournal.com]

Omg how on earth did I EVER miss this feature? xD Thank you so much for sharing and also thank you for keeping me. I really enjoy reading your entries, despite being shit at commenting/updating myself lately. x_x;

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

LOL I enjoy your entries too! :D But that feature is super helpful! I figured if it had been 6 months and a person had never commented or maybe only commented once, we probably weren't clicking. Takes the guessing game out of the whole thing!

[teagues-veil.livejournal.com]

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH RIGHT NOW!!!! THIS WOULD HAVE BEEN SO USEFUL TO KNOW ABOUT!

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

LOL you're welcome! I think I found out about it the same way, someone breaking down their entire friending/unfriending strategy, so I'm just paying it forward!

[verdande-mi.livejournal.com]

Thank you for answering! :)

[ekaterin24.livejournal.com]

So glad I made the cut! I swear, once I'm over this respiratory infection we must have that sushi lunch. I will Make It Happen!

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

LOL NEVER! I like reading up on your different adventures. :)

[sagittariusbun.livejournal.com]

Sam, don't delete me! lol

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

LOL you're still here! :)

[sagittariusbun.livejournal.com]

LOL The two Sams :-D

[a-phoenixdragon.livejournal.com]

Makes sense, honey...

[snogged.livejournal.com]

Seems like a good call.

[domluver.livejournal.com]

WOOHOO I SURVIVE

[howlin-wolf-66.livejournal.com]

Thank you for keeping me around. :-) *hugs*

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

I really need to do this as well, but I always worry about Drama. :/

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

Well, I figure if they are not commenting on my posts, I'm probably not engaging much with them either so it's not a huge heartbreak. :)

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

Ha, good point!

[hermionesparkle.livejournal.com]

I really need to do this but then my friends list will have like 6 people left. *sigh* I am glad you didn't delete me!

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

LOL nope, wasn't going to delete you! :) And not just because I need that extra edge on Buffy LIMS! :P

[hermionesparkle.livejournal.com]

LOL!!! I see how it is!!! :P ;)

[frelling-tralk.livejournal.com]

Thanks for keeping me :)

[orangerful.livejournal.com]

LOL, you're welcome? I always feel awkward making these kinds of posts but I figured it was better than just unfriending people and having them wonder if they did something, which isn't the case. For once, it's not them, it's me LOL

[polkadotsshoes.livejournal.com]

Hooray, I made the cut. :-)